It's a nice size and length for vaginal use for my wife, but if you're a beginner this definitely isn't for you, despite the fact that the squish may give some wiggle room. The shape is quite interesting; he's thick in all the right places, but it comes on all of a sudden and you can really feel everything, but it's not so textured that it becomes irritating (I hate it when dildos feel like sandpaper). It doesn't have any sort of chemical smell and it's nice and squishy on the outside and perfectly firm on the inside. The suction cup is also nice and strong. The balls are ridiculous and wish they made them smaller and used that area to add to the insertable length. you can feel them press against your backside when you hilt him against your cervix.Pros: She love’s the feel, texture, and smoothness of this toy. It's the right amount of squishy with the right amount of firmness. The next thing that’s extremely important is that it is exceptionally soft, smooth and VERY FLEXIBLE! As others have said, this is not a beginner toy because of the circumference. It's literally 3-4x the circumference of a medium sized toy. There seems to be no rough edges.Cons: The dimensions on the product pictures are very misleading. Using a fabric measuring tape I am getting the following measurements: The tip of the glans is 4" in circumference, the bottom of the glans is 6". The widest the shaft gets is 8" in circumference (about halfway down the shaft), the average circumference is 7.5". Insertable length is 7 to 7.5". Entire length is just barely under 10". I wish they’d make it longer and a more gradual taper to the max girth, but not have it max out at the base. I really hope this brand, Lovetoy, will start selling similar toys in less intense girth, around 7.5-7.75, as the quality and feel of this toy is similar to those that are over 2x’s this price.She has never felt a feeling of being so full AND still being able to completely love how it feels at the same time. If this toy blew up and disappeared she would ABSOLUTELY have me buy the exact same one again!I hope this helps you make the decision and go ahead and just get it. You will be so glad you did!