I own 2 other harnesses besides this one and it's a great new addition !Pros:-Hole position is higher and better for my partner and I. It's easier to fit other types of toys with wider bases from the inside of the harness due to it not having the traditional boxer brief slot.- Bullet Vibe slots. I like the addition of the 3 slots for a bullet vibe to slot into and it fits the one I own perfectly. Definitely recommend investing in a remote/app bullet vibe.-Good stretch for plus size and fits me and my partner great. Thankfully fits me great despite being a bit smaller than my partner. Any toy placed in is right above my crotch but your mileage may vary.- Material and texture is really nice and thankfully cotton on the inside to make it easy to take on and off. No bad chemical smells when opening or after using it and washing.Cons-More of my fault but I tore open the slot for the ring while trying to stretch it as wide as I can. I haven't seen a brief harness let you swap out rings but that would be a great feature ! Wish the ring was stretcher to accommodate larger suction cups/bases of toys.The ring is about 1.5" resting and 2.5 maybe 3" stretched but I'd only go as wide as 2.5 to avoid tearing.Great harness overall and I love the black faux leather for a serious look.