If you have never owned a flesh light you need to know first off that the material these things are made out of feels like the real thing once heated and lubed. It's absolutely luscious and wonderful, and honestly a bit magical. So it's just a matter of preference getting the right texture inside to match you. We actually did some couples play comparing this to the real thing when it first came, and the material is indistinguishable from the real thing once heated and lubed. I was allured by offsite reviews of virgin tightness, but was honestly a bit overwhelmed as it was so tight it was honestly uncomfortable at times(like anal) especially for the first few inches. So I looked for something a bit looser(by flesh light standards) and later choose the goddess for my second pick. Jessica here is super tight. If you like anal, you'll love this. But I honestly get a lot more use out of Annika, who's goddess insert feels more like a blowjob. I didn't think it was possible to be too tight, but for me Jessica here usually is. That being said you might love that. Lube amount is critical, experiment with probably too much to start.Quality product. Recommended, but not the best flashlight IMO. Buy some rubbing alcohol to speed up drying.