This book was life changing for me, literally! I was going through a rough time in my relationships with men and was very unsatisfied with my life, in general, when ,my younger sister recommended I read this. I had just turned my life over to God, but was still living in a worldly way and seeking answers, this book helped me to find them. I read this book and saw parts of myself in each of the main characters. Through reading this book, the online support system of others who were reading it, and the kind words of the author, herself, I was able to begin what became a 5 year journey of celibacy. And not just not having sex anymore, but exploring my relationship with God and strengthening my walk with Him. I was able to allow God to send me the right man instead of choosing all of the wrong ones myself. I am reading it again to help myself refocus, along with prayer and fasting.