i liked this book, it stands to reason that it would be for beginners. oral sex is oral sex, it's not like there's really some crazy technique that will put you on the top of any guy's list. you just have to get down there and relax, learn not to gag, and enjoy yourself.i bought this book 3 years ago when i met my fiance, because i really had my sights set on him and wanted to learn what seemed to me to be the inevitable. i was dreading it and hated myself for feeling obligated to a man to do something so "gross" just to serve him. but, after reading this i felt way more comfortable, and my attitude totally changed...i realized it should be fun for me too, not just something he gets all the benefits of! plus, i kinda hit the ground running so i didn't even have to reveal that i had never done it before.anyway, i would buy this is you're like me and are grossed out. this WILL change your attitude and get you started. or, i guess if you're a guy who has a problem with a girl like me you could give her this book (if you can manage to do that without being insulting), because my guy is always really grateful so i know there are guys out there whose lives could be improved by something like this...my fiance still doesn't know it was the book ^_^