As a male I was hesitant to be seen reading something like this. As dudes, we take pride in our work, we don't want to be coached on our sex skills. Glad I put aside my ego and invested the time and effort into reading this.Obviously, this book is about sex, but in reality it is about much much more. This should be the first book recommended to struggling couples in couples counseling. Relationship problems are often most evident in your sex life. From my own experience, when things are good, so is the sex, when things are bad, so is the sex. Is this cause and effect? Is the sex bad because of the relationship or is the relationship bad because of the sex? This book will teach you how to use sex to bring you closer to your companion, regardless of their gender.I am astounded at how powerful and effective this has been in improving my relationships over the past couple years. Buy this book, learn how to love your companion to his or her fullest. This isn't just about women. While the main focus of the book is about women, it is most useful for men who are trying to understand their women. Male and female libido are different, understanding those differences will only increase your happiness in your relationships. Seriously, I don't read sex books but this one changed my life.From this book I learned how to easily and comfortably develop a DEEP level of passion and intimacy with my partner, no pun intended. They should make you read this book before they give you a marriage license, yes it is that amazing! Even though I haven't stayed with the girls that have worked thru this book with, because of it we are still great friends and are still very close. You will develop relationships that you never thought possible, that are long lasting, honest, and authentic, all thru the power of sex.