This toy was way bigger than I realized when I ordered it (though to be fair, I did order the large). But even though it looks intimidating the way it's tapered really let's you ease into it. Or rather ease it into...well, you get the idea lol. A bit weightier than I expected, but that kinda gives it a nice solid feel. Love the DP action and the texture on the tentacle is amazing. Definitely one of my most satisfying toys. Took no more than a could of minutes to get me where I was going, so to speak.